Mental Health: Toxic Masculinity

Toxic Masculinity 



Men are often coerced to behave a certain way and display certain traits. Failure to do so lead to bullying, criticism and humiliation.

Men are expected to be strong and they are encouraged to not be emotional. For those reasons, men are reluctant to open up about mental health struggles and suffer in silence. The suicide rate associated with depression is higher among men than women because men do not seek mental help.

The solution is to end toxic masculinity in our society. One way to end this problem is through awareness.

First of all, one must know what is masculinity?

A set of attitudes and ways of behaving stereotypically associated with or expected of men, regarded as having a negative impact on men and on society as a whole.

Traits: 

1. Boys don't cry
2. Men have to be strong
3. Men are behaviorally aggressive
4. Men cannot show their emotions
5. Men cannot be feminine
6. Men are more powerful

Toxic Masculinity discourage men to seek help regarding their Mental Health. For example: depression and anxiety are perceived as a sign of weakness and are stigmatized. There are negative attitudes towards men who have depression and anxiety, making them uncomfortable to talk about their emotions. 


Consequences of Toxic Masculinity 

As men are not encouraged to seek help for their Mental Health, they tend to suffer in silence. This can lead to loneliness and isolation which can in turn increase depressive symptoms. 

Ending Toxic Masculinity

1. Identify your own biases
Do you have unconscious biases about masculinity such as ''he's so feminine / he needs to man-up / be a real man''

2. Raise awareness on the issue 
One way of raising awareness is through education. Educate people that it is okay for men to be sensitive or emotional.

3. Men need to feel safe to talk about their Mental Health
Men need to be encouraged to talk openly about their mental health struggles without being invalidated or shamed. Men should also feel encouraged to seek mental health help.

 

“If we want masculinity to be different, we must
confront and tackle the baseline instead of longing for exceptions.”
― Vivek Shraya, 


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